Real communication

A real communication takes place when the content that is sent is clear and understandable.
Messages should be useful and helpful. Nowadays there are a lot of forms of communication: mass media, telephone, mobile phone, internet, and also the verbal and the body language. However whatever form is used it must permit the receiver to realize the point of its contents.
In my opinion to have relationships with people it's necessary to be able to communicate effectively, in other words to make an interesting dialogue. Both the receiver and the messenger have to be interested: it's very important both listening, not only hearing that is just perceiving sounds and doesn't requires concentration, and talking.
Empathy between the messenger and the receiver is one of the first elements for a good communication. Another fundamental thing is to centre the attention on the messenger, you should forget the rest of the world and above all avoid distraction. From my point of view the world, that surrounds us, produces a lot of interferences and so it could be a little bit hard, but a pure conversation can't occur without real involvement.
Besides communicating can't take place without openness and availability of the speakers otherwise it's like talking to a wall. But everyone has to remind that reality is subjective you shouldn't expect someone to change their point of view.
In a dialogue all the persons have to talk, even if they disagree, they have to say their opinion in a polite way. Respect and education are two important principles for life in society and so for good communication too. A communication, to be great, doesn't implicate only a transmission of information from one person to another but it requires that information to be meaningful and its transmission to have a purpose.
Remember that for a good conversation happens in the right place at the right time and so don't be in a hurry. Choose well the time and the place in order that you and the other person are calm and undisturbed and nobody will interrupt you. Express your opinions: tell to the other person what do you think or feel about what he/she has just said.
According to me the main conditions for a real communications to take place aren't many but they should be respected, they are an open mind, politeness and concentration.

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